{"id":25064,"date":"2021-05-01T10:30:42","date_gmt":"2021-05-01T14:30:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/?p=25064"},"modified":"2021-05-03T09:41:00","modified_gmt":"2021-05-03T13:41:00","slug":"writing-internships-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/?p=25064","title":{"rendered":"Why Are All Our Interns On Zoloft?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1248px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-25039 size-fusion-400\" src=\"https:\/\/calepin.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/neonbrand-3GZNPBLImWc-unsplash-400x267.jpg\" alt=\"How To Be Less Wasteful In Your Writing\" width=\"400\" height=\"267\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Anxiety sucks. It emotionally and physically saps your energy.\u00a0 This article addresses how to use the creative flow to turn mental churning off and enhance productivity.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Forward:\u00a0 About this site and the author of this post.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>This site is the baby of Scott Witner who is doing an amazing job of coaching writers worldwide.\u00a0 This is something he should be truly proud of and I am honored to have him on our team.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Scott is an expert in the tactical from how-to for writing to blogging to social media and the very important <a href=\"https:\/\/calepin.co\/writer-development\/become-a-successful-blogger\/\" data-schema-attribute=\"\">how to make a living doing what you love<\/a>.\u00a0 I&#8217;m more of a creative coach that speaks to your soul and the passion you have for your craft.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-2\"><p><em>I consider myself a life scientist.\u00a0 I discover, test, and adopt habits, techniques, processes, and explanations that take the pain away from everyday life and bring happiness and joy.\u00a0 Life will throw tests and trials and the only control we have is how we respond.\u00a0 They can hold us down or propel us forward.\u00a0 I am a curator of the rocket fuel that gets you to nirvana.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I would be honored if you would allow me to be your creativity coach and guide.\u00a0 Maybe someday, I&#8217;ll have the pleasure of working with you.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-2 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1248px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-1 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:0px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:15px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:36;line-height:1.1;\">My Whole Team is on Anti-anxiety Meds???<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-3\"><p>In 2015, we began adding interns to our marketing agency.\u00a0 Neighborhood kids who couldn&#8217;t find a job with their journalism, web design, and graphic design degrees.\u00a0 My goal was to give them the experience that their resume needed to get them into their first job.<\/p>\n<p>This was back when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mhanational.org\/time-talk-tips-talking-about-your-mental-health\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" data-schema-attribute=\"\">talking about mental health<\/a> meant exposing there was something wrong with you.\u00a0 One day the office chatter turned to medications and everyone confessed they were taking Zoloft.\u00a0 Everyone!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Being in a creative field creates anxiety! It&#8217;s a tough gig.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I come from a math\/engineering\/business background where I was judged by my knowledge and experience.\u00a0 I quickly noticed how those in a creative field, writers and graphic designers, were insanely judged to highly subjective standards.\u00a0 Math, even business, is black and white, right\/wrong, profit\/loss.\u00a0 The products of creativity do not have such clear-cut standards<\/p>\n<p>In addition to irrational measurements of good and bad, creatives also invest a piece of their soul into their work.\u00a0 This personal investment into an unreasonable judgment system is the perfect recipe for extreme anxiety.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-3 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1248px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-2 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-2 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:0px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:15px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:36;line-height:1.1;\">How to Take Anxiety Out of Being Creative for a Living?<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-4\"><p>To reduce the anxiety that comes with producing work that will be judged, get into the creative flow!\u00a0 That&#8217;s it.\u00a0 It&#8217;s that simple.<\/p>\n<p>In the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/worklife\/article\/20190204-how-to-find-your-flow-state-to-be-peak-creative\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" data-schema-attribute=\"\">creative flow channel<\/a>, you are accessing intuition, inspiration, guidance, and a depth of wisdom from sources beyond our comprehension.\u00a0 This is an unlimited resource that you can tap into.\u00a0 You can invite creative geniuses to your channel to help and guide you.\u00a0 Allow it to flow through you without judgment or correction, just let it flow.<\/p>\n<p>View it as an infinite river of ideas, solutions, with a single purpose to help you create.\u00a0 You can tap into it anytime and where.\u00a0 The force is always with you.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-4 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1248px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-3 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-3 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:0px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:15px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:36;line-height:1.1;\"><p style=\"text-align: left;\">6 Steps to Get Out of Your Head and Into the Flow More Quickly<\/p><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-5\"><p>This takes practice but I assure you it&#8217;s easy to master.\u00a0 This site offers tools, workshops, and techniques to help you access it more easily and quickly. Soon, it will be second nature and the most useful instrument in your pencil box.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Where does the creative flow exist?\u00a0 <\/strong>Right below the stream of your day-to-day thoughts is the creative flow.<\/p>\n<p>Beyond all the noise and business in your head is where you tap into a sacred space of genius.\u00a0 It feels calm. peaceful, and creative but at the same time you are in <a href=\"https:\/\/calepin.co\/writer-development\/time-management-tips-for-writers\/\" data-schema-attribute=\"\">high-productivity<\/a> where ideas, designs, words, and solutions are all firing at the same time.\u00a0 It&#8217;s truly awesome.<\/p>\n<p>To access it, follow these steps:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Observe your thoughts. Step back in your mind and simply observe your thoughts passing.<\/li>\n<li>Allow them to simply pass by.\u00a0 Try not to grab onto any single one, just observe.<\/li>\n<li>See the connection with feelings.\u00a0 This is the secret.\u00a0 Your thoughts create your feelings.\u00a0\u00a0You don&#8217;t have to get sucked into the drama in your head.<\/li>\n<li>Start to work, allowing thoughts to pass by and most importantly DO NOT judge your work.<\/li>\n<li>If you find you latch onto a thought, start going down a rabbit hole, or have a feeling related to a specific thought, try to catch yourself and go back to just observing your stream of thoughts. And, start working again.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>How to stay in the creative flow.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Be aware of feelings triggered by thoughts.\u00a0 A feeling, typically negative, is your signal that you are slipping out of your creative channel.\u00a0 You&#8217;ll find yourself back in your head again.\u00a0 Ugh.<\/p>\n<p>As you watch your thoughts float in and out like clouds passing keep an eye on feelings.\u00a0 You only have a feeling when you have a specific thought.\u00a0 When you experience the connection that your thoughts create your feelings, sometimes it&#8217;s an epiphany and other times it&#8217;s a gradual slow ah ha, that&#8217;s when you start to gain control of the process.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-5 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1248px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-4 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-4 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:0px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:15px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:36;line-height:1.1;\">Prepare to Be Annoyed<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-6\"><p>When you&#8217;re in the flow and see everything come together, it&#8217;s spectacular.\u00a0 \u00a0But, interruptions can be annoying. Create a space where you can avoid distractions and interruptions.\u00a0 Go dark, go deep, and enjoy the peace.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-6 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1248px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-5 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-title title fusion-title-5 fusion-sep-none fusion-title-text fusion-title-size-two\" style=\"--awb-margin-top-small:0px;--awb-margin-right-small:0px;--awb-margin-bottom-small:15px;--awb-margin-left-small:0px;\"><h2 class=\"fusion-title-heading title-heading-left fusion-responsive-typography-calculated\" style=\"margin:0;--fontSize:36;line-height:1.1;\">Why is Anxiety so Prevalent Today?<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-7\"><p>It is my opinion that social media has put us each in our own personal fishbowl. We are exposed to extreme measures of scrutiny and judgment.\u00a0 It becomes a hamster wheel of needing validation but instead of getting validation, we barnacle onto anything we perceive as negative. The negative puts pressure on the small inherent cracks in our psyche. As a result, we begin to care too much about what other people think.\u00a0 We worry and obsess.<\/p>\n<p>We worry more than we&#8217;ve ever worried in the history of the human race and it infiltrates all aspects of our thoughts.\u00a0 In the unfortunate case where negative comments are intended to hurt or harm, it can chip away at our souls.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mean comments suck but they don&#8217;t need to sting.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Once you understand the connection that your thoughts create\/trigger your feelings, you immediately recognize thoughts that are harmful, allow them to pass.\u00a0 You learn to just wait for the next better thought and get into the wonderful space of creative flow.\u00a0 You will find that the impact of the negative will be less and less and less.\u00a0 It goes from a gut punch to a slap to a pinch to a &#8216;hm? I think that was that supposed to hurt?&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Today, I say to myself\u00a0 &#8220;<em>wow I don&#8217;t like the way that made me feel<\/em>&#8221; or\u00a0 &#8220;<em>hmm, that&#8217;s unusual<\/em>.&#8221;\u00a0 I don&#8217;t even go into self-evaluation. I just let the thought pass and look for the next better thought.\u00a0 I try to do something that will push my mind into the creative flow.\u00a0 If there is a real problem that is causing anxiety, I use the creative flow to come up with 50 or 100 solutions.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s shocking how it seems you should be getting control of your mind or your thoughts to fix the problem but it&#8217;s the opposite, it&#8217;s about letting go.\u00a0 Know that you have 60,000+ thoughts a day and you&#8217;ve trained your mind to be on heightened alert for those that harm.\u00a0 Observe the feeling, let the bad ones pass, and let the thoughts flow by without grabbing onto any.<\/p>\n<p>Good luck.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[691],"tags":[697],"class_list":["post-25064","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-writer-development","tag-featured"],"featured_image_src":null,"featured_image_src_square":null,"author_info":{"display_name":"Julie","author_link":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/author\/julesadvan"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25064","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=25064"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25064\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=25064"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=25064"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/calepin.co\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=25064"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}